“The Physical Manifestation of Spiritual Unity”.
For me, I’ve always “tried” to define sex as: “The Physical Manifestation of Spiritual Unity”. I”ve always told myself, I would never have sex with a partner that I wasn’t willing to legally father any offspring that should result in such activity. That didn’t mean love had anything to do with the sex. (See the last quote on this article)
I believe I held true to that creed most of the time. (The math is impossible as I still have certain episodes of amnesia from back in the day) God was gracious and cut me some serious slack.
On the other hand, our creator endowed us with hormone secreting organs that would inspire us to procreate to keep the Human race from extinction. I use to be proud of the math, now I’m sort of ashamed of how many women I didn’t love that I had sex with. (Or even knew their names) Ironically, the women I loved the most; I never had sex with. How did that happen? Oh I know, either they were married or I was married.
“Time can be so cruel“.
In the 60’s, the term “Free Love” became popular. 20 years later a term called “socially transmitted disease” became popular. The truth remains “Free Love” meant nothing more than a sexual hand shake and like the Jersey shore; cheapened man’s values of that which might have been sacred at one point.
The next time you have sex; ask yourself if you are two spirits uniting through physical manifestation? (Or just fucking)
In an episode of CSI “Las Vegas” Grissom, (The lead investigator) once said: “Sex without love does the opposite of what it’s meant to do. It’s sad. It just makes you feel lonely”.